[Writer's note: I wrote the Question of the Day in a hotel room, and it was raw, just for you! I've edited it a bit for clarity, and incorporated the "blogginess" into the answer. You're welcome!]
The question of the day was asked by a few friends of mine -- we're a group of ... hundreds of representatives for Athena's Home Novelties, and our business is my specialty - education and sales of adult products to help the world be a better place! (Really!!)
[Shout out to my Goddesses and Adonises - especially to my colleague Gina who won TEN THOUSAND dollars this weekend!]
WHY is hotel sex so alluring? What is the appeal??
The question of the day was asked by a few friends of mine -- we're a group of ... hundreds of representatives for Athena's Home Novelties, and our business is my specialty - education and sales of adult products to help the world be a better place! (Really!!)
[Shout out to my Goddesses and Adonises - especially to my colleague Gina who won TEN THOUSAND dollars this weekend!]
WHY is hotel sex so alluring? What is the appeal??
**if you are family, you have now been warned that personal material is on the way**
I've had more hotel sex than the average bear. I've had more partners, in more hotels, and I can tell you it's always a thrill, even when it has been my husband of many, many years!
First, leaving stress behind is essential to any hotel stay, if there's any chance of sleep being had. That step alone is a good habit for fostering better intimacy, which leads to better sex for us all, no matter where we are. Not having to empty the kitty litter or look at the full recycle bin that needs to go out tonight, yes TONIGHT, and of course it's raining.... Breathe - relax, you're at the hotel now.... no dishes to wash, and no toilets to scrub.
Second, inhibitions can come down without familiar ears around. Sex between consenting adults is a positive thing, and, in my belief, should be a happy noise to hear, knowing you can be overheard can limit . In a hotel, anything that sounds consensual and fun is just background noise. Unless it's really hot. Last night I heard a lot of sex noises, and it was titillating and almost .... ok, it was frustrating. Or, it would have been if I had forgotten my bag of tricks... but that's a digression! During the daytime hours, I like to be a bit more vocally reserved. If you are into safe vocal restraint, this is a great time to practice it! On the flip side, hotels might not be the place to loudly play out that really dark Daddy fantasy you've decided to safely indulge in. Quietly, certainly... (Roleplay will be my next column!)
Being in a city that is far from home can foster a sense of adventure, too. If a person or people want to do something new in bed - whether it's anal sex for the first time, a threesome or moresome, or just a random hookup, it doesn't take place in a spot that is usually safe and comforting. If the experience is less than stellar, it doesn't disturb the vibes of the inner sanctum. In the case of the random hookup, a nice hotel is a FAR better place to realize there is no way you want them around you, and you can leave or ask them to leave. (Make no mistake, I'm talking about upscale hotels. Clean places with better security.)
Back to me. Knowing that there is, probably somewhere in this building, someone who meets enough criteria to be Mr or Ms Right Now, is tantalizing and scary all at once. With internet service, it can be astonishingly easy to find someone nearby who is willing to head over, meet for a drink in the bar or a coffee in the lobby, and then head up to one's room. Just going to the hotel bar or wandering around a hotel can open up opportunities to meet new people for all purposes!
And with that, I'm off to go find some trouble! ;-)
Please send questions and feedback to : goddess.maria@gmail.com with the subject line reading "Your blog" plus any topic you'd like to add : "your blog-roleplay", for instance. Thank you for interacting with the writer - she loves it!!!
Love,
TheGoddessMaria
First, leaving stress behind is essential to any hotel stay, if there's any chance of sleep being had. That step alone is a good habit for fostering better intimacy, which leads to better sex for us all, no matter where we are. Not having to empty the kitty litter or look at the full recycle bin that needs to go out tonight, yes TONIGHT, and of course it's raining.... Breathe - relax, you're at the hotel now.... no dishes to wash, and no toilets to scrub.
Second, inhibitions can come down without familiar ears around. Sex between consenting adults is a positive thing, and, in my belief, should be a happy noise to hear, knowing you can be overheard can limit . In a hotel, anything that sounds consensual and fun is just background noise. Unless it's really hot. Last night I heard a lot of sex noises, and it was titillating and almost .... ok, it was frustrating. Or, it would have been if I had forgotten my bag of tricks... but that's a digression! During the daytime hours, I like to be a bit more vocally reserved. If you are into safe vocal restraint, this is a great time to practice it! On the flip side, hotels might not be the place to loudly play out that really dark Daddy fantasy you've decided to safely indulge in. Quietly, certainly... (Roleplay will be my next column!)
Being in a city that is far from home can foster a sense of adventure, too. If a person or people want to do something new in bed - whether it's anal sex for the first time, a threesome or moresome, or just a random hookup, it doesn't take place in a spot that is usually safe and comforting. If the experience is less than stellar, it doesn't disturb the vibes of the inner sanctum. In the case of the random hookup, a nice hotel is a FAR better place to realize there is no way you want them around you, and you can leave or ask them to leave. (Make no mistake, I'm talking about upscale hotels. Clean places with better security.)
Back to me. Knowing that there is, probably somewhere in this building, someone who meets enough criteria to be Mr or Ms Right Now, is tantalizing and scary all at once. With internet service, it can be astonishingly easy to find someone nearby who is willing to head over, meet for a drink in the bar or a coffee in the lobby, and then head up to one's room. Just going to the hotel bar or wandering around a hotel can open up opportunities to meet new people for all purposes!
And with that, I'm off to go find some trouble! ;-)
Please send questions and feedback to : goddess.maria@gmail.com with the subject line reading "Your blog" plus any topic you'd like to add : "your blog-roleplay", for instance. Thank you for interacting with the writer - she loves it!!!
Love,
TheGoddessMaria
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